Sand Ceremony
What is the meaning of a sand ceremony at a wedding?
The wedding sand ceremony expresses the coming together of two people or two families into one new family. It is a very simple idea that can be incredibly powerful. Typically, each person has different coloured sand and takes turns pouring it into one clear vessel, forming a layered effect. The vessel can be pre-engraved with your wedding details and you can then display in your home. (see below)
It is particularly popular when 2 families are joining together, as the children can also participate in this wonderful symbolic ‘joining’ activity.
Handfasting Ceremony/Tying the Knot
At a pre- determined part of your whole ceremony, the following steps will take place.
The couple or Celebrant recite a statement of their intent.
The Celebrant explains the significance of the ceremony to everyone. The couple declare their desire to be joined.
The Celebrant asks if anyone knows of a reason why they should not be hand-fasted.
The couple each drink from a cup, holding the cup for each other. (content and vessel is your own choice)
The couple face one another and link their right and left hands to form an 8 .
A cord or ribbon is placed over their hands. Your own colours can be chosen with your own personal significance.
This is the ritual that is called tying the knot.
The couple each read their own vows, expressing their love and commitment to one another.
The Celebrant then asks the assembled guests if they will support the couple.
The couple kiss each other - that is their first gift for each other. Other personal ‘gifts’ can be added to suit your personal ceremony and preference.
The couple walk clockwise around their circle of friends and family. ( optional, depending on seating arrangement and venue)
The Celebrant, the couple and the witnesses all sign the witness book or certificate.
